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The Cosby Show Made Him Famous. His Estate Plan Failed His Family. Here’s What I Would Have Done.
Malcolm-Jamal Warner, best known as Theo Huxtable on The Cosby Show, died in 2025. One year later, his widow alleges $1.2 million in unfulfilled premarital obligations: a life insurance policy never purchased, a Roth IRA never funded, and anniversary payments never made. A nine-year-old daughter is at the center of the dispute. Here’s what more thorough follow-through on the planning could have helped prevent.
2 days ago7 min read


Make-A-Will Month Is Here. But a Will Isn't a Plan.
August is Make-A-Will Month, and if you've been meaning to get your affairs in order, this is your reminder. But before you assume that getting a will means your family is protected, there's something most people don't know about what a will actually does and doesn't do. Read more...
2 days ago7 min read


Friends Don't Let Friends Go Without an Estate Plan
You've heard the phrase: "Friends don't let friends drive drunk." The same logic applies to estate planning. According to Caring.com, only 24 percent of Americans have a will. For some of the people you love most, you may be the only person in their life who will ever bring this up. Here's how to do it without making it weird, and what to tell them about what real planning looks like.
August is National Make a Will Month, which means this is exactly the right time.
Aug 108 min read


Trump Accounts: What Every Parent of a Baby Born 2025–2028 Needs to Know
The federal government is depositing $1,000 into savings accounts for every baby born between January 1, 2025, and December 31, 2028. The account is called a Trump Account, contributions opened July 4, 2026, and most families have not yet taken the step to claim it. Here is what it is, how to open one, and what it means for your family's plan. Read more…
Aug 36 min read


When Your Spouse Won't Get on Board with Estate Planning: What to Do Now
You've raised it before. Your spouse keeps saying "not now." But every week that passes without a plan is a week your family's future depends on chance instead of intention. Here's what to do when you're not on the same page, and what you can start doing today. Read more...
Jul 277 min read


What Happens to Debt When You Die: What Families Must Know
Most families believe they will inherit their loved one’s debt. Most debt collectors count on that fear. Your debt does not automatically transfer to your heirs, but it shapes how much they receive and what the estate must pay before they get anything. Here is exactly what happens and what your family needs to know before the collectors call. Read more…
Jul 2012 min read


The New Tax Law and Your Family's Trust: What to Know Now
The One Big Beautiful Bill raised the estate tax exemption to $15 million per person. That provision made headlines everywhere. A second one didn't: a deduction limitation buried in a Congressional footnote that tax lawyers say may create double taxassumption is wrong, and the problem is not the list. The problem is a layer of security most accounts now require that no password can bypass. Here is what actually keeps families locked out, and what a real digital estate plan lo
Jul 156 min read


Digital Estate Planning: Why Passwords Aren't Enough
Most families assume that a list of passwords will be enough to access accounts after a death. That assumption is wrong, and the problem is not the list. The problem is a layer of security most accounts now require that no password can bypass. Here is what actually keeps families locked out, and what a real digital estate plan looks like. Read more…
Jul 67 min read


Divorce Doesn't Update Your Estate Plan: Here's What Does
Whether you had an estate plan going into your marriage or not, your divorce changed everything. The settlement resolved custody and assets. It did not address what happens to your children if you die. For divorced and separated fathers, that gap almost always exists, even when it feels like the plan is in place. Here is what actually needs to be updated. Read more…
Jun 298 min read


The Father the Law Doesn't See: What Stepfathers and Father Figures Need to Know
He shows up for every game, knows the bedtime routine by heart, and considers these children his family. The children consider him theirs. But under the law, he doesn't exist as a parent at all. This Father's Day, here is what every stepfather and father figure needs to know. Read more…
Jun 226 min read


The Question Every Father Thinks He's Answered (But Hasn't)
Father's Day is a celebration of presence. But the fathers who've truly done right by their families aren't just the ones who showed up every day. They're the ones who made sure their family would be protected whether they were there or not. If you haven't answered the one question that matters most, this is where to start. Read more…
Jun 156 min read


Who Would Raise Your Kids If You Couldn't? (What You Don't Know About the First 72 Hours)
You've thought about who would raise your children if something happened to you. But thinking about it and actually naming someone in a legal document are two very different things. If your family doesn't have an answer in writing, and something unexpected happens to you, a judge who has never met you or your children will make that decision. Here's what you need to know, and what you can do about it today. Read more…
Jun 99 min read


No One Warned Her About the Widow Penalty. Her First Tax Return Did.
When a spouse dies, most surviving partners expect grief. They do not expect a tax bill. The "widow penalty" is a real and largely unrecognized consequence of losing a spouse that can cost a surviving partner thousands of dollars more every year in taxes and Medicare premiums, at the worst possible moment in their life. Here is what it is, who it affects, and what you can do now, while there is still time to plan. Read more...
Jun 19 min read


The Document That Fails When You Need It Most
You signed the Power of Attorney (POA). You thought your family was protected. But when a parent or spouse loses capacity, that document you trusted may get rejected at the very bank where you need it most, and your family may not have time to fight it. As your Alaskan Personal Family Lawyer®, this is exactly the kind of gap I make it my job to close before you ever need to find out the hard way. Read more…
May 257 min read


He Sold His Company for $1.2 Billion. He Died Without an Estate Plan.
Tony Hsieh sold Zappos to Amazon for $1.2 billion and built one of the most admired companies in America. When he died at 46 without a will or a trust, his family was left to sort out an estate worth hundreds of millions of dollars. Publicly, slowly, and painfully. What happened next is a lesson everyone who has something to protect should read. Read more...
May 188 min read


Her Husband Died Without a Will. Then ICE Came to the Door.
You may think estate planning is about who gets what after you die. It is also about who stays safe, housed, informed, and protected in the days after a loss. The reported story of Marie-Thérèse Ross-Mahé shows how grief can turn into legal chaos when a family is left without a clear plan. Read more…
May 137 min read


Tax Season Forced You to Look. Now Ask the One Question That Actually Matters.
Your tax return is the most complete picture of your financial life you'll get all year. But most people close the folder without asking one critical question: if something happened to you tomorrow, are the people you love actually protected? Here's how to answer it before the window closes. Read more…
May 46 min read


One Death, One Courtroom, One Child — and a Lesson Every Parent Needs to Hear
What happens to your child if something happens to you tomorrow? One real court case shows how quickly things can spiral — medical needs, family conflict, and no one with legal authority to step in. The outcome depended on evidence most families don’t have. Here’s what every parent needs to know. Read more...
Apr 275 min read


Estate Planning for Unmarried Couples: Protecting the Person You Love
Your partner could be barred from your hospital room - not by hospital policy, but by law. Without a marriage certificate, the person you love most may have no legal authority over your health, your home, or anything you've built together. Here's what unmarried couples need to know. Read more...
Apr 204 min read


Here’s What Can Happen to Blended Families When a Spouse Dies
You trust your spouse completely. But if you're in a blended family and your estate plan simply says "everything goes to my spouse," your own children could end up with nothing - not because anyone meant harm, but because ownership changes everything. Read more…
Apr 143 min read
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